Seeing I to I: A pathway to interpersonal connectedness

  • Pinel E
  • Long A
  • Landau M
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Abstract

The authors introduce the construct of I-sharing--the belief that one shares an identical subjective experience with another person--and the role it plays in liking. In Studies 1-3, participants indicated their liking for an objectively similar and an objectively dissimilar person, one of whom I-shared with them and the other of whom did not. Participants preferred the objectively similar person but only when that person I-shared with them. Studies 4 and 5 highlight the role that feelings of existential isolation and the need for closeness play in people's attraction to I-sharers. In Study 4, people with high needs for interpersonal closeness responded to I-sharers and non-I-sharers with great intensity. In Study 5, priming participants with feelings of existential isolation increased their liking for I-sharers over objectively similar others. The results highlight the importance of shared subjective experience and have implications for interpersonal and intergroup processes.

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  • Attraction and liking
  • Interpersonal relationships
  • Self-as-subject

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Authors

  • Elizabeth C. Pinel

  • Anson E. Long

  • Mark J. Landau

  • Kira Alexander

  • Tom Pyszczynski

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