Only Child, Only Hope: Living in a Chinese Family

Abstract

The One Child policy has shaped new family lives in contemporary Chinese families and thus leads to new ways of parenting. The only child is the center of family life and enjoys undivided parental love, support, and attention. Parents devote a great deal of care and resources to their only child, regardless of its gender. In addition, many only children enjoy the material wealth generated as a consequence of the Open Door policy. However, having one child pushes parents to take a huge interest in his or her education and to have very high expectations of that child’s academic achievement. While the only children are enjoying a wealthier lifestyle and better educational opportunities, the parents may find it difficult to catch up with their children.