Commentary: Money can't buy you love, but lack of love costs families and society plenty – a comment on Bachmann et al. (2019)

Abstract

The target paper on the costs of (lack of) love underscores the ongoing need for early preventive interventions that support parents, both mothers and fathers, aiming to provide for their children. With effective targeting of such interventions, the emergence of children's antisocial behavioral problems may be greatly lessened. In addition to the economic costs to family and society of caring for children with moderate or severe antisocial behavior problems is substantial, the costs in terms of diminished health and well-being may persist across the lifespan. Recent research on attachment and physical health adds to the evidence base pointing to the substantial economic burdens, falling to families, schools, and health services, when insecurity or disorganization of attachment typifies early parent-child relationships. Further research ought to give consideration to potentially moderating or compensatory relationships that otherwise vulnerable youth may develop to supportive peers, siblings or teachers.