Differential Agency: Living Apart Together

Abstract

This chapter explores different expressions and enactments of agency through the lens of living apart together (LAT) relationships. LAT relationships draw on traditional patterns of coupledom within a new family or relationship arrangement. The chapter emphasises the differing levels and degrees of agency that enable LAT relationships in a variety of different circumstances with varying preferences, constraints, and obligations on couples. Agencies are relational with others, bonded with partners, sometimes reduced to patiency, and often emotionally derived from feelings of fear or vulnerability.