Consensual Non-Monogamies in Industrialized Nations

Abstract

Consensual non-monogamies (CNM) include relationship practices that allow individuals to openly have multiple partners. In this chapter we introduce and describe the diverse forms of CNM, distinguishing them from more prominently known forms of multiple partner relationships such as polygyny and cheating. This chapter explores the various types of CNM that are practiced in industrialized nations today, such as swinging, polyamory, open relationships, relationship anarchy, and monogamish relationships. We highlight the commonalities among these variations of CNM, specifically the importance of honesty, open communication, and negotiation, which serve CNM practitioners in crafting guidelines to structure their personal relationships. We close with a discussion of the theories and methods popular in CNM research, as well as recommendations for future research.