A comparative study of lesbian and heterosexual women in committed relationships

Abstract

Data from a diverse sample of lesbians and a demographi-cally matched group of heterosexual women were used to examine and compare lesbians' and heterosexual women’s relationships. Findings suggest similarities in the broad relationship experiences of women in the sample including the importance of being in a committed relationship, shared values with partners on relationship issues, and division of labor. Contrary to previous research findings, lesbian and heterosexual women did not differ on overall frequency of sexual activity. Although relationship violence was uncommon among participants in this study, indicators of poor conflict resolution strategies were moderately high in both lesbian and heterosexual couples. Use of mental health services for relationship problems was low and did not differ by sexual orientation. Understanding relationship dynamics in general, and in lesbian couples in particular, is important in the provision of appropriate and effective mental health resources and services. © 2003 by The Haworth Press, Inc. All rights reserved.