CONSUMMATE LOVE PADA PASUTRI DENGAN ISTRI MANTAN PEKERJA SEKS KOMERSIAL

Abstract

Consumatte love or as known as a perfect love is a love that happens from intimacy, passion and commitment. The most interesting part to discuss is an ex prostitute who gets married to a man using consumatte love/perfect love approach. In this study, researcher is using a married couple as her subject’s research. There are criterias in order to choose this research. First is, the researcher choose a married woman who has been an ex prostitute, that married couple should have been in 10 years relationship or still counting, have no kids who works as a breadwinner for the family and they live their happy life. This study aims to determine the perfect love (Consummate Love) of an ex prostitute who gets married and being a wife. This research is using qualitative approach and an explanatory techniques with a single case. Respondents in this study were 2 women and 2 men who were a married couple.The analysis technique’s branch that used is a structured explanation technique. The results of this study indicate the motive behind the reason why this women stop being a prostitute and being a good wives to do a household that ther are dreaming about. Positive encouragement or motivation given by the husband to strenghten thier wives in order to socialize with the society around. Wives need to accept any situation that occurs in their household, such as patient and sincere deals with household problems, does not require thier husband to fulfill their desires and needs. There are Many other factors which influence the reason behind the process of stop being a prostitute and be a wives to do a household and it describes in chapter 4.