In-Laws’ Perceptions of Topic Avoidance, Goal Inferences, and Relational Outcomes

Abstract

Utilizing a multiple goals theory of personal relationships, the present study examined conditions under which in-laws’ are more or less dissatisfied with each other’s’ topic avoidance (i.e., general and in-law specific). Results from unpaired parents-in-law (n = 154) and children-in-law (n = 199) revealed that the topic of perceived avoidance was important in determining relational outcomes (i.e., relationship satisfaction and family connection) associated with topic avoidance. Additionally, the negative, linear association between topic avoidance and relational consequences was moderated by in-laws’ goal inferences. Findings extend theorizing on topic avoidance and multiple goals while simultaneously providing practical guidance for in laws.