Research on solving the problem of original families and personal growth

Abstract

It is difficult for everyone to get rid of traces of childhood, especially family discipline. The experience of childhood has been integrated into his mind and subconscious mind. Once in appropriate time will be excreted in an extreme way. There is no doubt that the influence of the original family is significant, but it is not decisive, and there is no absolute causality. In adulthood, individuals are faced with situations in which they choose to grow their own lives. The trajectory and state of life thereafter cannot simply be attributed to their parents. A person's innate qualities, such as IQ, psychological resilience, resistance to frustration, susceptibility to environmental stimuli, etc., interact with the environment, and genes and the environment determine the formation of a person's personality. Everyone has an imprint on their original family after they become adults, but how to treat and develop depends on each person's own attitude and choice. Therefore, learning to reconcile with bad original family is a major issue in our life.