The Movements of Grief

Abstract

The concept of movement and flow reaches into the core of human existence, since nature teaches us its necessity as the seasons move and flow from one to the next. So too, the notion of movement is pivotal to the function of grieving, from the moment loss occurs through to that which is unfolding and becoming. This paper posits three fundamental elements of movement in grief: transience, transition, and transformation. These movements propel nuanced, active, and action-based micro and macro movements to induce healthy bereavement outcomes. Drawing upon the grief literature, clinical observation, and therapeutic reflection, this paper seeks to expand and deepen the therapist’s understanding of the grief movements and the interception of each with the client’s experience. Viewed from this perspective, it will enable the therapist to listen for, observe, hold, and honour the function of each grief movement in a way that enables the client to navigate the deconstructive landscape of loss through to a more integrated and whole experience of life and living.