AKHLAK DALAM KEHIDUPAN BERKELUARGA

Abstract

Abstrak : Having family by marriage is sunnatullah for all the creatures in the world. In human life, family just can be formed by marriage, that is a holy connection between a man and a woman. Religion and moral state that marriage is the only right way to release the sexual desire honorable to get good generation. Because of that, sex without married, live together without married, and having sex with the same gender is a wrong behavior, out of rule, and contrary to compulsary state (fitrah) as human, and it is forbidden by religion. In order to have a happy and harmony family, life in family has to based on love, sincerity, and worship, not because of pressure or just looking for the desire of sex. Because of that, the morality on the family life has to be understood and done by all members in family (espcially husband and wife), so that, they can create a happy and prosperous family (sakinah mawadah wa rahmah). ‫اﻟﺰواج‬ ‫ﺧﻼل‬ ‫ﻣﻦ‬ ‫أﺳﺮة‬ ‫ﺗﻜﻮﯾﻦ‬ ‫ﻟﻠﻨﺎس‬ ‫ﷲ‬ ‫أوﺳﻨﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﻄﺒﯿﻌﺔ‬ ‫ﻗﺎﻧﻮن‬ ‫ھﻮ‬ ،‫ﺣﯿﺎﺗﮭﻢ‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫اﻟﻨﻜﺎح‬ ‫ﺧﻼل‬ ‫ﻣﻦ‬ ‫ﺗﺘﻜﻮن‬ ‫واﻷﺳﺮة‬ ‫واﻟﻤﺮأة‬ ‫اﻟﺮﺟﻞ‬ ‫ﺑﯿﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﻘﺪس‬ ‫رﺑﺎط‬ ‫وھﻮ‬. ‫اﻟﺪﯾﻦ‬ ‫أﻋﻠﻦ‬ ‫ﺑﺄ‬ ‫واﻷﺧﻼق‬ ‫أﺟﻞ‬ ‫ﻣﻦ‬ ‫اﻟﺠﻨﺴﯿﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﻐﺮاﺋﺰ‬ ‫اﻹﻧﺴﺎن‬ ‫ﻟﻘﻨﺎة‬ ‫اﻟﺼﺤﯿﺤﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﻮﺳﯿﻠﺔ‬ ‫ھﻮ‬ ‫اﻟﻨﻜﺎح‬ ‫ن‬ ‫ﺟﯿﺪ‬ ‫ﺟﯿﻞ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫اﻟﺤﺼﻮل‬. ‫ذاﻟﻚ‬ ‫وﻣﻦ‬ , ‫اﻟﺮ‬ ‫واﻟﻤﺮأة‬ ‫ﺟﻞ‬ ‫اﻟﻨﻜﺎح‬ ‫دون‬ ‫ﻣﻌﺎ‬ ‫ﯾﻌﯿﺸﺎن‬ ‫اﻟﻠﺬان‬ ‫اﻟﺠﻨﺲ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺲ‬ ‫ﻣﻊ‬ ‫اﻟﺠﻨﺴﯿﺔ‬ ‫واﻟﻌﻼﻗﺎت‬ ‫و‬ ‫ﻟﻠﺪﯾﻦ‬ ‫وﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺔ‬ ‫وﻣﺸﻮھﺔ‬ ‫ﺧﺎطﺌﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﻠﻮك‬ ‫ھﻮ‬ ‫اﻟﺒﺸﺮﯾﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﻄﺒﯿﻌﺔ‬ ‫وﻣﻨﺴﺠﻤﺔ‬ ‫ﺳﻌﯿﺪة‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺋﻠﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫اﻟﺤﺼﻮل‬ ‫ﻷﺟﻞ‬ ‫ذﻟﻚ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫وﻋﻼوة‬ ‫ﺣﯿﺎة‬ ‫ﻓﻲ‬ ‫ﻓﯿﺠﺐ‬ ‫اﻟﻀﻐﻂ‬ ‫أﺳﺎس‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻟﯿﺲ‬ ‫و‬ ‫وﻋﺒﺎدة‬ ‫واﻟﺼﺪق‬ ‫اﻟﻤﺤﺒﺔ‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﺒﻨﯿﺔ‬ ‫ﺗﻜﻮن‬ ‫أن‬ ‫اﻷﺳﺮة‬ ‫و‬ ‫ﻓﺤﺴﺐ‬ ‫اﻟﺠﻨﺴﯿﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﺮﻏﺒﺔ‬ , ‫ﺑﻞ‬ ‫اﻷﺧﻼﻗﯿﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﻘﯿﻢ‬ ‫وﯾﻨﻔﺬ‬ ‫ﯾﻔﮭﻢ‬ ‫أن‬ ‫اﻟﻌﺎﺋﻠﺔ‬ ‫أﻓﺮاد‬ ‫ﻟﻜﻞ‬ ‫ﺑﺪ‬ ‫ﻻ‬ ‫واﻟﺰوﺟﺔ‬ ‫اﻟﺰوج‬ ‫ﻋﻠﻰ‬ ‫وﺧﺎﺻﺔ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻟﺤﺐ‬ ‫ﻣﻠﯿﺌﺔ‬ ، ‫اﻟﺴﻠﻤﯿﺔ‬ ‫أﺳﺮة‬ ‫ﺗﻜﻮﯾﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﻦ‬ ‫ﯾﺘﻤﻜﻨﻮا‬ ‫ﺣﺘﻰ‬ ‫واﻟﺤﻨﺎن‬