Dinamika Resiliensi Remaja Yang Pernah Mengalami Kekerasan Orang Tua

Abstract

violent from parents, explain the factors that are the background of the formation of resilience, as well as knowing the impacts arising out of the acts of violence that being experienced. This study uses qualitative method with phenomenology type of research. The subject uses in this research are three people with criteria teenagers aged 13 to 19 years old, male or female, and are willing to be the subject of the study. The study shows that teenagers who had been the victims of violence parents can rise from their deterioration of the past and it is influenced by several factors, namely protective factor and risk factor. Protective factors or the supporting factors are the individual characteristics that are strong and willing to change, relationship and social support that is obtained, the presence of useful activities performed, a different & more comfortable life’s atmosphere, has an interest & talent, as well as has the capacity to learn. Risk factors or the factors that restrict teenagers from resiliencing are lack of the ability to establish good relationships with the perpetrators of the violence, unable to forgive, and the dependency against the bad past like mad, sad, and scared when reminded of the violence that ever experienced. The aspect of resilience that appear on teenagers as the victims of violence parents i.e. teenagers have positive values and good judgment on current life, better physical changes, have hope and responsible for the life of their own, independent, optimistic, can make a solution to a problem, have impuls control and self-efficacy, can take lessons from life, realistic towards good things that can be done, as well as having an abundance of gratitude.